Posts tagged with trufax.
Hair woes. Want to hear something even more messed up? My BLACK coworkers say the same damn thing! I DON’T GET IT! I even had a Jamaican coworker who wears her hair in an afro puff sometimes, tell me this shit. HIGHLY ANNOYING.

no, you know what? fuck y’all!

sourcedumal:

velocicrafter:

if I’m talking about racism I will for goddamn sure use an accusatory tone towards people whose actions support racism or whose words defend it.

it doesn’t matter that

  • you “didn’t mean it that way”
  • you “didn’t know”
  • you think I’m “taking it too personally” 
  • you think I’m “overthinking it”
  • you think I’m “reading too much into it”
  • you don’t understand why I’m mad

you know why?

when people experience racism

  • we don’t get a fair warning.
  • we don’t get a disclaimer of “you only have to think about this if you’re ready & now’s a good time for you”
  • we don’t any kind of apology (99.998% of the time) when we decide that this time we’ve had enough & we’re not gonna put up with it.

and I’m not here to educate you.

  • I had to figure most of what I know out on my own
  • I had to seek out my own resources from the many many people who have opted to write about these ideas for the education of others
  • I am constantly saying things that don’t get taken seriously until a white person says the exact same goddamn thing

but most of all

  • because my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.

“But people are more willing to listen if you’re niiiiiice!!!!”

  • does my anger make you uncomfortable?
  • think of what it must be like to be inundated with so much ignorance that rage is the only answer.
  • but most of all…
  • fuck that
  • did I stutter?
  • reread this entire goddamn post
  • and remember
  • my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.
  • my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.
  • my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.
  • my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.
  • my life is about creating my own comfort, not about catering to yours.

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(Source: mermeanie)

Meanwhile in the Northeastern United States.

Last Halloween: Massive Snowstorm.
This Halloween: Intense Hurricane.
Next Halloween: Godzilla returns.
"When you refuse to pay attention to what life is saying to you, life will make its point very clear."
Iyanla Vanzant (via leonajune)

(via fuckyeahfamousblackgirls)

corruption: I am incredibly sick of people right now →

whataboutthemenses:

Just last week I happened to be awake at 3 am and heard “go away, stop it” from outside my apartment window. Of course I was worried and wound up going outside with my cell phone and my pocket knife (the cell phone so I could pretend I was on it). I found a woman across the street, 18-20, somewhat…

Missing my friends like crazy since yesterday.
nickelsonwooster:

Strategy.

“Never apologize for having high standards. If the person really cares about you they will find a way to rise up and meet them.”

(Source: shirlss)